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jumpingjacktrash:
watching a science documentary and they did a bit on face blindness
they were like “imagine not being able to instantly recognize the actors in the latest blockbuster, or your friends and coworkers”
i was like WOW IMAGINE FUCKING THAT
That would be simultaneously terrifying and exhausting.
what, faceblindness? nah, it’s just inconvenient. it’s not like y’all are just faceless egg people to me. it’s just that two people with brown hair and blue eyes and long hair and roundish faces look substantially the same.
things like facial expressions, being tired, a sunburn, or a change of room lighting changes how your face looks so much that to me, you look like a different person. i do not actually think you ARE a different person.
everyone keeps looking different all the time, it’s not something that happens suddenly. all my life people have always changed with the angle of the light, like flowers opening and closing, you know? like the tree in your backyard that is still the same tree in all seasons. it doesn’t freak you out that the tree looks different by moonlight than it does in the afternoon, right? same way it doesn’t freak me out when seebs looks different when eating noodles in their pyjamas than when striding out to go conquer the world.
it’s just that 98% of people have some kind of brain hardware that goes an extra step when looking at other humans, and recognizes a pattern that is somehow coherent despite all these visual changes. i don’t have that hardware. i recognize people by a collection of visual characteristics that are no more hardwired than how you’d recognize a tree – low fork on the left, kind of a knot about six feet up, top looks sorta pointy, there’s that broken branch where the phone truck bumped it – and by things like voice, gait, and scent.
so yeah, sometimes i lose a friend at the mall because they changed their glasses or put their hood up. it’s a bit annoying when that happens. but i just holler, and they holler back, and i recognize their voice.
This is summed up really well, and as someone who suffers from face blindness as well, I thought I’d share. It’s actually something connected with autism, for me!
Despite not being specific to autism, it is quite common among the autistic community.
-mod Aleksandr
I actually did find it exhausting and anxiety inducing in the workplace, probably because it’s paired with severe social anxiety. People, IME, aren’t very forgiving when you mess up their names several times. I don’t find neurotypicals to be very receptive to being told you’ve got a problem like that either.
I had a few tricks to cope with it when I was working, but people still didn’t like them very much.
I wouldn’t call it terrifying, except in a social consequences kinda way. Friends are generally understanding, coworkers not so much.